There’s an exasperating question that’s all-too-familiar to commuter students: “Aren’t you afraid to miss out on the college experience?” This question perpetuates the misconception that there’s only one way to “do” college, and it means living on campus.
The reality is this: YOU are the author of your own college story. So, read on and let us debunk the myths that surround commuting to college.
Myth 1: You won’t make any friends.
Myth Debunked: Remember how we said that you are the author of your college story? Nowhere is this more true than in the friend department. Everyone starts their college social life at square one, both residents and commuters.
From the beginning, start by making connections with students in your classes or with students in the library. Ask your classmates to lunch, offer to study with them, and be sure to make yourself available to small talk. You’d be surprised how many small talk interactions can blossom into real friendships.
Bonus Perk: If you live off campus, you have the opportunity to invite your classmates over as a break from residential hall life.
Myth 2: Scheduling will be too complicated.
Myth Debunked: Commuting to campus requires some planning, but you can still maximize every minute if you want to! You’ll need to be organized about coordinating class times and fitting in your social life, work life, and extra clubs and commitments. Between classes or while you wait around for an evening social event, you can go to the library to finish that homework like nobody’s business.
Bonus Perk: If you can find any of your textbooks or literature in audio form, listen to your reading on your commute. Boom — double efficiency.
Myth 3: You can’t be as involved on campus.
Myth Debunked: Most campus opportunities are available to all students. You can buy a commuter meal plan if you want the freedom to accompany resident friends to the dining hall. As a commuter, you are just as eligible for joining sports teams, music or dance groups, and the rest of the clubs Neumann University has to offer, for instance.
Bonus Perk: Neumann has several other programs intended to integrate and enrich the commuter student experience!
Myth 4: Living at home shelters you from “the real world.”
Myth Debunked: Commuter students have to learn to manage adult responsibilities like extra time management and better organization since they aren’t living where they are taking classes. Commuter students start to learn things like planning for traffic, packing the essentials to be away from home all day, and preparing to make the most of their time while they are on campus.
Bonus Perk: You can use your commuting time to listen to professional development podcasts. This will put you ahead of the game and give you a competitive edge!
So, back to being the author of your own story — if Dostoevsky told Jane Austen and Ernest Hemingway that there was only one way to write a novel, we’d be missing out on some incredible literature. You don’t need to experience college in the same way that someone else does. What is right for them might be wrong for you!
Whether you're a first-year student, an international student, a transfer student, or a first-generation college student, the professionals at NU are dedicated to helping you succeed. Choosing to commute to campus is just one way that you can write your own college story, and we hope you’ll inquire more about what it would mean to be a part of the Neumann University experience.